What would u do...if u have an enemy whom u swear upon God that u will never forgive in ANY of ur life because he/she ruinned ur life once and made ur life a living hell..is now a fren to a person u consider a family member?

imagine having a ..emm.. say brother...who knew what u went through during the period of hell..emotionally..everything la...and knows how much u hated that person who made ur life a living hell once. suddenly..one morning..he tells u.."hey..i went out with a fren that day..n he brought 2 frens with him. oh n btw..they are the bitches who once made ur life a living hell" (words n sentences re-phrased ..but with the same meaning)
wouldnt u freaked out??? what the hell is ma so-called brother doing with the bitches i hate most in ma life??? to add salt to the wound.."we clicked"..... how the hell would u react?? pls..pls tell me! am i selfish for being mad..or is he selfish for not considering ma feelings??

i have always thought...a person u consider close like a family member..would never..n i repeat..NEVER do that to a person they claim to care so much for. if it was me...and ma so-called bro tell me that "i am really uncomfortable that u r frens with him esp since u know i hated him n what he did to me.." i will stay away from that guy! cos..i just KNEW that person. but i knew ma so-called brother for 3 years!!! logically..who would i put first?? a person dear to me or a person i hardly know WHOM i assume clicks with me after the first outting??? besides...i KNEW what he did to ma bro... how ma so-called bro suffered for months of emotional breakdowns n such... will i have the heart to be frens with the person who did that to him?? who even once talk bad behind ma back without even KNOWING me first?? talk bad behind ma friends' backs???will u?

"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. " Henri Nouwen

I am quoting this from a page i came through on the net. NO i didnt type 'britney spears' in my google search engine. i was actully looking for websites on eyes for ma MI assignment. :p

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Open up any big name magazine at your nearest newsstand and find a half-naked woman lying atop some man dressed to the nines in Armani pinstripes--scotch in one hand; cigar in the other. Flip over a few pages and see pictures of a twenty-one year old pop icon, naked but for a pair of skimpy panties and a few beaded necklaces. In recent years, the media world has done a swift one-eighty degree spin to something that can be described as crass, crude and overtly sexual. A bikini-clad model perched on a shiny, red sports car, licking a monkey wrench, has become as normal as candles on a birthday cake.

In the infamous November 2003 Esquire Magazine interview and photoshoot, Britney Spears talked with savvy journalist Chuck Klosterman. Klosterman writes:

Interviewing Britney Spears is like deposing Bill Clinton: Regardless of the evidence, she does not waver.
"Why do you dress so provocatively?" I ask. She says she doesn't dress provocatively.
"But look what you're wearing right now," I say, while looking at three inches of her inner thigh, her entire abdomen, and enough cleavage to choke a musk ox.
"This is just a skirt and a top," she responds.

It is not that Britney Spears denies that she is a sexual icon, or that she disputes that American men are fascinated with the concept of the wet-hot virgin, or that she feels her success says nothing about what our society fantasizes about. She doesn't disagree with any of that stuff, because she swears she has never even thought about it. Not even once.

"That's just a weird question," she says. "I don't even want to think about that. That's strange, and I don't think about things like that. Why should I? I don't have to deal with those people. I'm concerned with the kids out there. I'm concerned with the next generation of people. I'm not worried about some guy who's a perv and wants to meet a freaking virgin."

And suddenly, something becomes painfully clear: Either Britney Spears is the least self-aware person I've ever met, or she's way, way savvier than any of us realize.

Or maybe both.

Britney Spears is but one of a new breed of pop tarts and pre-teen idols--gyrating, sashaying (and singing) in revealing, low-cut clothing and getting paid for it. The flip-side to this is the millions of very young, easily-influenced girls buying her albums, playing with their Britney Spears dolls, poring over her photos and mimicking her dance moves. These girls are growing up idolizing superstar Britney Spears and they assume that they should look, act and dress every bit as Britney's image. But what kind of example is she setting for her young fans?

Children are becoming accustomed to blatant displays of sexuality - and who can blame them, as the world has accepted this as the norm. What's more? Some parents approve her as a role model for their young children. In some ways, she has almost become a replacement for parenting. Eleven year-olds can gyrate better than I can!

Top personal branding consultant Peter Montoya said: "She has been so well marketed that the question of her talent is really a non-issue. Like Madonna 20 years ago, Britney Spears is having a major impact on American culture, influencing the way teen-age girls dress, act and think — especially with regards to sex."

According to Britney, she's "concerned with the kids out there"; but as to how she dresses, her sexually-charged music videos and her over-sexualized image in general, she "[doesn't] even want to think about that." There in lies the dilemma.

There is a fundamental issue that is steadily surfacing. Media has brainwashed society to value outward appearances over other qualities such as intelligence and personality. In fact, the individual's intelligence, character, moral worth--or lack thereof--plays not the slightest role in whether they should be (or are) made into a noteworthy icon. The media only considers the amount of skin one is willing to bare; and the more the better. To them, a person has no value unless she can be made to appear visually provocative.

"As a child, I don't remember seeing scantly clad women on the covers of magazines as excessively as today. And I feel it's negative for young boys to grow up thinking that that's the standard of beauty. The long-term repercussions are not good at all." - Nelly Furtado in Rolling Stone magazine

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to me..personally..i think she's just a dumb blonde! (i just re-formated ma pc...but once i get all ma softwares installed..i will upload the pictures to prove between air brushed- images n the reality of Britney)

This is specially for the muslims...
this matter..the facts that i am stating below is serious..just ponder..how close we are to 'kiamat'...

1. Sembahyang diabaikan (diringan-ringankan).

2. Keinginan nafsu syahwat digalakkan dan berleluasa disebarkan melalui iklan, buku, gambar, risalah atau filem.

3. Penjenayah menjadi pemimpin dan kebanyakannya jahil mengenai agama dan banyak memberi fatwa yang menyesatkan pengikutnya.

4. Perkara benar menjadi salah dan salah menjadi benar. Sukar untuk membezakan perkara halal dan haram kerana yang haram dianggap halal serta sebaliknya.

5. Berbohong menjadi satu keperluan dalam hidup dan menganggap jika tidak berbohong sukar untuk hidup senang.

6. Membayar zakat (harta, perniagaan dan pendapatan) dianggap beban.

7. Orang yang hidup mengikut kehendak agama ditindas dan hati mereka sentiasa merintih kerana maksiat berleluasa tetapi mereka tidak mampu mencegahnya.

8. Turun hujan di luar musimnya dan hujan tidak memberi keuntungan kepada makhluk di muka bumi.

9. Fenomena lelaki berkahwin dengan lelaki (homoseksual) dan perempuan berkeinginan kepada perempuan (lesbian) semakin menjadi-jadi.

10. Perempuan menguasai lelaki dengan memakai ubat guna-guna, sihir dan amalan syaitan lain.

11. Anak-anak mengingkari dan menderhaka ibu bapa (ibu bapa menjadi kuli dan anak menjadi tuan).

12. Kawan baik dilayan dengan kasar, manakala musuh diberi layanan baik. Kawan disangka lawan dan musuh dianggap sahabat serta memusuhi orang yang mengajak berbuat kebaikan.

13. Dosa dipandang ringan malah bangga melakukannya seperti zina, minum arak, bergaul bebas antara lelaki dan perempuan, meninggalkan sembahyang, mendedahkan aurat dan berjudi.

14. Masjid dihias indah tetapi kosong, terpulau, berkunci dan banyak berlaku kecurian barang masjid yang berharga.

15. Ramai yang sembahyang tetapi munafik dan berpura-pura. Di dalam sembahyang berjanji akan mengikut suruhan Allah tetapi di luar sembahyang melanggar perintahNya.

16. Akan datang golongan manusia dari Barat menguasai mereka yang lemah (iman) dan ramai terpengaruh dengannya seperti mengikut cara mereka berpakaian, bergaul dan suka berpesta.

17. Al-Quran dicetak dengan indah tetapi hanya dijadikan perhiasan dan jarang dibaca serta diamalkan kehendaknya.

18. Amalan riba berleluasa hingga orang alim pun terjebak sama.

19. Darah manusia tidak berharga, sering berlaku pembunuhan, peperangan dan jenayah.

20. Penganut Islam tidak mahu mengamalkan suruhan agama dan tidak mahu membela serta menyebarkannya.

21. Akan bertambah banyak penyanyi wanita (wanita yang tidak beriman adalah senjata syaitan yang baik).

22. Ramai orang kaya pergi umrah dan haji dengan tujuan melancong, yang sederhana pergi untuk berniaga dan yang miskin bermaksud meminta sedekah.

I was reading the Utusan Malaysia newspaper online...and i had goose bumps when i read this. To the muslims...pls take this as a BIG sign for u to add ur amal ibadat.. to change to b better...

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Ditanya apakah yang disaksikan olehnya sebaik sampai di Banda Aceh, Dr. Jemilah dengan penuh sebak menyatakan, beliau seperti melihat gambaran kiamat di depan mata.

Jelas beliau, apa yang diceritakan dalam al-Quran tentang hari kiamat itu semuanya berlaku - orang bertempiaran, anak terlepas dari tangan, ibu mengandung melahirkan anak.

Kebenaran peringatan kitab suci katanya jelas terbukti apabila beliau dan anggota pasukan Mercy Malaysia menyaksikan jenazah seorang ibu bergelimpangan dengan janin yang masih melekat tali pusat terkeluar daripada rahim.

``Ini sangat menginsafkan. Kami terpaksa berdepan emosi diri sendiri, emosi pesakit dan keadaan sekeliling.
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still thinking of clubbing and make sins, dear muslims? think again

A friend of mine sent an email to me regarding this...and i find it very interesting. Check it out..

Bob: Tell me why is it that a Muslim is very particular about the words Halaal

and Haraam; what do they mean?



Yunus: That which is permissible is termed Halaal and that which is not permissible

is termed Haraam and it is the Quran which draws the distinction between the two.



Bob: Can you give me an example?



Yunus: Yes, Islam has prohibited blood of any type.You will agree that a chemical

analysis of blood shows that it contains an abundance of uric acid, a chemical

substance which can be injurious to human

health.



Bob: You're right about the toxic nature of uric acid, in the human being it isexcreted as a waste

product and in fact we are told that 98% of the body's uric

acid is extracted from the blood by the kidneys and removed through urination.



Yunus: Now I think that you'll appreciate the special prescribed method of animal

slaughter in Islam.



Bob: What do you mean?



Yunus: You see, the wielder of the knife, whilst taking the name of the 'Almighty',

makes an incision through the jugular veins, leaving all other veins and organs

intact.



Bob: I see, this causes the death of the animal by total loss of blood from the

body, rather than an injury to any vital organ.



Yunus: Yes, were the organs, example the heart, the liver, or the brain crippled

or damaged, the animal could die immediately and its blood would congeal in

its veins and would eventually permeate the flesh.This implies that the animal flesh

would be permeated and contaminated with uric acid and therefore very poisonous;

only today did our dieticians realize such a thing.



Bob: Again, while on the topic of food; Why do Muslims condemn the eating of pork

or ham or any foods related to pigs or swine.



Yunus: Actually, apart from the Quran prohibiting the consumption of pork,bacon

(pig flesh); in fact the Bible too in Leviticus chapter 11,verse 8,

regarding swine it says, "of their flesh (of the swine, another name for pig)

shall you not eat, and of their carcass you shall not touch;they are

unclean to you. Further, did you know that a pig cannot be slaughtered at the neck

for it does not have a neck; that is according to its natural anatomy.A Muslim

reasons that if the pig was to be slaughtered and fit for human consumption the

Creator would have provided it with a neck.Nonetheless, all that aside, I am sure

you are well informed about the harmful effects of the consumption of pork, in any

form, be it pork chops,ham, bacon.





Bob: The medical science finds that there is a risk for various diseases the pig

is found to be a host for many parasites and potential diseases.



Yunus: Yes, even apart from that, as we talked about uric acid content in the blood,

it is important to note that the pig's biochemistry excretes only 2% of its total

uric acid content, the remaining 98% remains as an integral part of the body.





Well..? Just think of it yeah

Tsunami opened up ma eyes widely. I was shaking and ma heart shrinked to be as small as bacteria when ma sis told me the BIG signs of 'kiamat'...and we are going through it. Tokcik read in the Quran in a surah that's somewhere at the end of the Quran stating..something like this as BIG signs that 'kiamat' is nearby..

"Bintang2 di langir bertaburan...air ombak bergelora datang mencurah2..."

sounds familiar? u should be getting goose bumps by now. Anyways, think i should remind ppl about this..ESPECIALLY the muslims. i am gonna state the signs of the world ending as mentioned in the Quran; both in English and Malay..

7121. Narrated Abu Hurairah r.a.: Allah’s Messenger said, “The Hour will not be established till:

(1) Two big groups fight each other whereupon there will be a great number of casualties on both sides and they will be following one and the same religious doctrine,
(2) About thirty Dajjal (liars) appear, and each one of them will claim that he is Allah’s Messenger,
(3) The religious knowledge is taken away (by the death of religious scholars),
(4) Earthquakes will increase in number,
(5) Time will pass quickly,
(6) Al Fitan (trials and afflictions) will appear,
(7) Al Harj (i.e. killing) will increase,
(8) Wealth will be in abundance -so abundant that a wealthy person will worry lest nobody should accept his sadaqa, and whenever he will present it to someone, that person (to whom it will be offered) will say, ‘I am not in need of it,’
(9) The people compete with one another in constructing high buildings,
(10) A man when passing by a grave of someone will say, ‘Would that I were in his place,’
(11) And till the sun rises from the West. So when the sun will rise and the people will see it (rising from the West) they will all believe (embrace Islam) but that will be the time when (as Allah Ta’ala said):

“No good will it do to a person to believe then, if he believed not before, nor earned good (by performing deeds of righteousness) through his Faith…” (V. 6:158)

“And the Hour will be established while two men spreading a garment in front of them but they will not be able to sell it, nor fold it up; and the Hour will be established when a man has milked his she-camel and has taken away the milk but he will not be able to drink it; and the Hour will be established before a man repairing a tank (for his livestock) is able to water (his animals) in it; and the Hour will be established when a person has raised a morsel (of mood) to his mouth but will not be able to eat it.”

7121. Dari Abu Hurairah r.a.: Rasulullah berkata, “Kiamat tidak akan terjadi hingga:

(1) Dua kelompok besar saling berkelahi di mana akan terdapat sejumlah besar korban dari kedua belah pihak sedangkan mereka mengikuti doktrin agama yang sama,
(2) Akan muncul 30 Dajjal (pendusta), dan masing-masing dari mereka akan mengaku sebagai Nabi,
(3) Pengetahuan tentang agama akan menghilang seiring dengan wafatnya dari para ahli agama,
(4) Meningkatnya jumlah bencana gempa bumi,
(5) Waktu akan berlalu dengan cepat,
(6) Munculnya fitnah,
(7) Meningkatnya angka pembunuhan,
(8) Kesejahteraan melimpah-begitu melimpahnya sampai orang-orang kaya khawatir bahwa tidak akan ada orang yang dapat menerima sedekahnya, dan setiap kali ia menawarkan hartanya untuk disedekahkan kepada seseorang, seseorang tersebut akan berkata, ‘Aku tidak dalam keadaan membutuhkannya’,
(9) Orang-orang saling berkompetisi untuk mendirikan bangunan-bangunan tinggi,
(10) Seseorang yang melewati sebuah makam akan berkata, ‘Bagaimana seandainya aku yang berada di tempatnya’,
(11) Dan sampai matahari terbit dari barat. Maka ketika matahari terbit dan semua orang melihatnya (terbit dari barat) mereka akan meyakini (memeluk Islam) namun saat itu adalah waktu ketika Allah Ta’ala akan berkata:

“…tidaklah bermanfaat lagi iman seseorang bagi dirinya sendiri yang belum beriman sebelum itu, atau dia (belum) mengusahakan kebaikan dalam masa imannya…” (Qs. 6:158)

“Dan kiamat akan terjadi ketika dua orang laki-laki membentangkan selembar kain di depan mereka namun mereka tidak sempat untuk menjualnya, tidak pula melipatnya; dan kiamat akan terjadi seorang laki-laki memerah susu dari unta betina miliknya dan membawa susu itu pergi namun ia tak sempat meminumnya; dan kiamat akan terjadi sebelum seorang laki-laki yang sedang memperbaiki tanki air (untuk kebutuhan sehari-harinya) sempat memberi minum hewan peliharaannya; dan kiamat akan terjadi ketika seorang laki-laki sedang akan memasukkan makanan ke dalam mulutnya namun tak sempat memakannya.”

for the muslims..f u r still not shaken by it...mengucap banyak2. tambahkan amal ibadat...jgn tinggal perkara2 yg diwajibkan Allah swt...it's not too late to change. it's too late when it's too late (as mentioned above). we cant predict 'kiamat'..but we should get ready for it. I know i am not cos i dont have enough amal to face God with. So..berbanyak kanlah amalan... InsyaAllah...we will all be safe...ameen...


"Amalan yang paling disukai Allah adalah yang berterusan walaupun sedikit".Sahih.R.Bukhari & Muslim

Heyho! Wow...'ve been ages since i post up here. Again..not that i forgot..just got a lil tight up with other windows in ma pc. :p

Anywyas..hope it's not too late to wish..HAPPY NEW YEAR!! :D May this new year brings us more happiness, success and away from natural disaster.. *slient moment for those who died after being swallowed by the extreme waves during Tsunami...al-Fatihah*

Anyways..just though i should share ma experience when i was going back to Penang to celebrate New Year with ma family last wednesday. Left cyberjaya at 7.30am to catch ma 9.15am flight to Penang. while checking in...i was told that ma flight was delayed for 1/2 an hour. so shafiq n i grab our breakfast at mcd till i realised that it was already 9.20am (flight at 9.45) and i am still out here. so i walk fast to enter when i heard "final call for MH1136 to Penang". I walked as if ma legs are attached to a train to head to gate B10 which was the second last gate...(geessshhh). i was the 3rd last to enter the airbus which was quite empty (capasity of normal flight i think).

Anyways...here is the best part..i took 9.45am flight ..but i reached Penang at 3.00pm!!! what the heck??? i was in that 9.45 for 2 freaking hours..not moving!! they found out that there was a problem with the navigation..n kept telling us to b patient. after 2 hours...they asked us to leave to catch the next flight to Penang. there are like...gosh..SO MANY of us..imagine la..airbus... n we were all rushing to get the 11.50 am flight cos that's the earliest. i only manage to get the 2.00pm flight.

What i am saying is that...what happened to Malaysia Airlines...really?? cos this is not ma first time experiencing this. and regarding the 'best cabin staff' in the WORLD...yeah rite!!! they are so rude!...at least most of em. geeeshhh... i use to look up on MAS....i dont that high anymore.
They are bringing em self down that will allow Airasia to catch em. geeshh...

Wasted 3/4 of ma sunlight day in KLIA. MAS or Airasia..? Think again.